Moms of multiples tell it like it is

Entries from May 2009

Please Vote! Sunday, May 31st

May 31st, 2009 by · 4 Comments

Hello Everyone!  Enormous thanks go to our wonderful MoM’s who have agreed to “try out” for HDYDI! We are beyond thrilled that so many of you are reading along with us, and we hope you enjoy our contest week.  Please vote for the author you would like to hear more from, as the authors with the [...]

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A HDYDI First

May 28th, 2009 by · 1 Comment

Mark your calendars! Beginning this Sunday, May 31st and running through Sunday, June 7th, we will be hosting our new author contest! We were blown away by everyone’s responses to join the ranks of HDYDI MoM’s, and are thrilled to be hosting a week-long contest of wonderful writers! Stay tuned for a week of fabulous [...]

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Divorce, marital problems, and multiples

May 26th, 2009 by · 34 Comments

After telling my husband I would not watch the season premiere of Jon and Kate Plus 8 last night, I ended up tivoing it anyway and watching it. I was sad after the show and stayed up way too late thinking about it. What really got me was when Kate said divorce rates are so [...]

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Tags: Family · Famous Twins · Mommy Issues · Relationships

You got to have (mom) friends

May 25th, 2009 by · 11 Comments

It was actually a smaller gathering than we’re used to. And a much higher adult-to-child ratio, too.  Normally, when we’re hanging out in this particular backyard, we expect to see about 10-12 kids under 3 and maybe four or five adults.  This time it was down to only seven kids, and a whopping six adults.  [...]

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Tags: Toddlers

Writers Wanted!

May 23rd, 2009 by · 28 Comments

THANK YOU everyone for your overwhelming response! We are so excited to know how many MoM’s read and enjoy HDYDI! We will be sorting through your responses (loved them all!) and figuring out a few things over the next week. Expect to receive an email in the near future. At this time, the comments section [...]

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Singing happy birthday to multiples

May 19th, 2009 by · 16 Comments

My boys turned three on Saturday and we sang Happy Birthday to them individually. They have to share SO MUCH that I thought it would be nice to give them individual attention on their birthday. Alex went first since he is the oldest, so technically his birthday is first! Then a couple of comments on [...]

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Tags: Celebrations

Why I Hate Weekends

May 18th, 2009 by · 14 Comments

One thing I’ve discovered, in my almost two years as a stay-at-home mom, is that “weekends” just don’t have nearly the same ring to them as they used to.  In my pre-kids working days, I loved the weekend as much as the next person.  Get up when I feel like it, stay in my pajamas [...]

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Tags: Family · Mommy Issues · Toddlers

Generation Z

May 14th, 2009 by · 10 Comments

While paging through the May 2009 issue of Ladies Home Journal, I came across an article titled “Workplace Wars.” The author, Carol Mithers, wrote about the cultural clash occurring between the Baby Boomers (born between 1946-1964); Generation X (born between 1965 and 1980); and Generation Y or “the Millennials” (born between 1981-2000.) A small but [...]

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Tags: Family · Other people · Relationships

Divas and Dudes

May 12th, 2009 by · 27 Comments

Contrary to popular lesbian stereotypes, the majority of our friends are straight with most of those having kids. We’ve been to exactly one gay bar exactly one time and it was about as both appealing and appalling as any other bar. Neither of us are man-haters. I won’t leave the house without lipstick. We’ve been [...]

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Tags: Family · Relationships

Birthday emotions

May 12th, 2009 by · 6 Comments

The week before my twin boys turned 1, I was an emotional mess. I couldn’t stop thinking about their birth. I couldn’t stop remembering the emotions of our week in the NICU, so worried about my little boys.  I mourned the normal pregnancy, normal childbirth, and normal newborn experience I would never have. I was [...]

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Tags: Celebrations · Mommy Issues