Moms of multiples tell it like it is

Entries from October 2009

Tick-Tock

October 14th, 2009 by · 10 Comments

My baby turned one this week. My big girl started school last month. As I’ve been waiting for things to get “easier” and hoping for the comments and questions about our family to die down, it now hits me: I like the attention. Sure, sure. I complain about it all the time. I want to [...]

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Tags: Family

What if we didn’t have multiples??

October 13th, 2009 by · 8 Comments

 As women, I think we often get a bad case of the “Ifs” or “If onlys.” You know, like: “If only my body looked like it did BEFORE I had my babies…”  or “If only I could keep my house perfect…”  or “If only I had time to work out… then I would (or ANY [...]

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Tags: Mommy Issues

Division of Labor

October 10th, 2009 by · 15 Comments

I’m one of the lucky ones.  I have a husband who not only is great with the girls but willingly helps out.  All. The. Time.  I remember those first few months after the girls were born and how Rich would never complain about the difficulty in caring for a newborn preemie infant throughout the night while [...]

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Diaper Bag Confessions

October 9th, 2009 by · 9 Comments

With the first snow fall of the season, it seems like it is the right time to clean out our diaper bag. That’s a big task, because when it comes to diaper bags, I’m a stuffer. We have a good sized diaper bag/back pack, and whenever we head out, I think about what I might [...]

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A Finer Moment

October 7th, 2009 by · 6 Comments

Rachel is a number cruncher by day, the birth mom in a two-mom household to boy/girl 17 month old twins. A new website is coming, but for now, you can read more about ‘em at http://rajencreation.wordpress.com/ _________ Last Thursday, the kids started with runny noses. Friday and Saturday was my Mother’s Of Multiples club Garage [...]

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Tags: Celebrations · Family · Mommy Issues

A farewell to blog

October 6th, 2009 by · 9 Comments

This statement is filled with a variety of emotions: this will be my last post on HDYDI. I didn’t want to fade into the sunset and have people wonder why I wasn’t posting since I’ve been here writing every Tuesday for the last 18 months. As my boys are almost 3.5, I find I don’t [...]

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Tags: Celebrations

Absolving the guilt

October 5th, 2009 by · 14 Comments

I attended an event for my Moms of Twins club this weekend, a brunch welcoming new members from the past year.  Obviously, that meant a lot of moms with young infants, and even some who are still pregnant. I ended up in a conversation with three moms whose babies were under 4 months old.  Oh, [...]

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Tags: Infants · Mommy Issues

My TWOsome

October 4th, 2009 by · 5 Comments

I flaked on my post last week because my girls recently turned two.  We had their party last Sunday, and it was like Elmo’s World up in here for a day.  Whew!  Glad that is over… I can hardly believe two years have passed since my girls came into this world.  In truth, most of [...]

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Tags: Behavior · Celebrations · Development · Toddlers

DAYFAIL

October 1st, 2009 by · 22 Comments

When will I ever learn?  My kids, like so many others have an early bedtime.  This is an absolute godsend at most times, but occasionally it does bite me in the arse. Am I the only fool who tries to pretend bedtime doesn’t exist on some nights? My dad is visiting from the east coast [...]

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