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Entries from December 2009

First Christmas and First Birthdays – All in 2.5 Weeks

December 28th, 2009 by · 17 Comments

I was supposed to post on Christmas Day, but I got busy with other things and forgot to get my post ready.  So Merry belated Christmas everyone! When I found I was pregnant last year.  I did the math to see when the baby was due. I estimated my due date in the last week [...]

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Tags: Celebrations

It really does get easier. {The holiday version}

December 26th, 2009 by · 6 Comments

One of the most frequently asked questions from parents of newborn multiples is, “When does it get easier?  It DOES get easier, right?”  The answers from experienced parents vary from, “When they start sleeping through the night,” to “It doesn’t get easier – the hard stuff just changes.” For some reason, I always seem to [...]

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Baby, It’s Cold Outside

December 23rd, 2009 by · 3 Comments

This entry is a bit of a crosspost from my own blog. Happy holidays everyone and best wishes for a happy, healthy and safe 2010! ******************************************** Last winter, Tiny and Buba were still under a year old (9-11 months) and not yet walking. Being the germaphobe that I am, combined with the hassle of bundling [...]

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Tags: Activities · Toddlers

Traditions: “The most wonderful time of the year…”

December 22nd, 2009 by · 4 Comments

I love this time of year- the cheesy music on the radio, the lights, the cold weather.  All of it!  Reese and Riley are nearly 16 months- not quite old enough to “get” Christmas or the holidays yet, but old enough to have fun digging into presents and loving family all around them.  I’ve been [...]

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Tags: Family

This could be my life

December 21st, 2009 by · 14 Comments

I have a really large extended family. Aunts, uncles, cousins galore. A bunch of baby-crazy cousins at perfect babysitting age, as a matter of fact. The whole family is really close and gets together for dinner nearly every Sunday. 1,000 miles away from where I live. I’m all for independence. I’m proud of the things [...]

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Tags: Family

Needs And Wants

December 16th, 2009 by · 12 Comments

By the time I was sixteen, through various volunteer activities through church and the community, I had walked among shoeless children living in a ‘town’ of cardboard boxes they called home, served meals to the homeless and mentally ill, and had read books to a hospitalized girl my age who would succumb to cancer a [...]

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Back 2 the Future: Child-proofing

December 15th, 2009 by · 17 Comments

“Child-proofing” is a term that gives me a good hearty chuckle, like “potty trained.” We child-proofed the heck out of our house when we were expecting the twins. Magnetic locks on all the cabinets, with the magnet stored up high. Gates at the top and bottom of the stairs. Locks on all the door handles, [...]

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Tags: Ask The Moms · potty training · Safety

How much sharing should multiples have to endure?

December 12th, 2009 by · 10 Comments

I grew up with three younger brothers and no sisters.  For the most part, my toys were my toys.  My brothers wanted nothing to do with my Barbie dolls, Cabbage Patch Kids and the like.  There were toys that we shared but I do not recall any big fights or incidences surrounding sharing. My husband [...]

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Having twins doesn’t mean you have to buy a minivan

December 11th, 2009 by · 27 Comments

At this time last year, we were shopping for a new car.  When we planned for a second child, we knew we’d need to replace our Toyota Corolla because it wouldn’t hold two car seats.  My main request was a car with power locks so I didn’t have to put everything down to unlock the [...]

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Tags: Products · Safety · Travel

Sleep Rules That Saved Us

December 9th, 2009 by · 23 Comments

Sleep is a big topic at new mothers group meetings. Because there’s nothing worse than sleep deprivation. It wears you down physically, mentally, and emotionally. I remember in the early days with newborn twins thinking what I would give for a good 5-6 hour block of sleep. But I was breastfeeding and needed to be [...]

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Tags: Napping · Overnight · Sleep