Moms of multiples tell it like it is

Entries from June 2010

Weaning on two (or three!) different timelines

June 25th, 2010 by · 9 Comments

For a number of reasons including my sore back, my schoolwork demands, and our childcare schedule, I’m getting more proactive about weaning. (And, I think I read heard imagined that toddlers stop breastfeeding and start walking about the same time. Since our girls are almost 18 months old and still not walking, maybe this will [...]

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Tags: Breastfeeding · Development · Routines · Toddlers

Give Us Any Chance, We’ll Take It

June 24th, 2010 by · 9 Comments

It seems that my two-year-olds have decided to live by the lyrics from the old Laverne & Shirley theme song. Give them any chance, they’ll take it. Give them any rule, they’ll break it. Thankfully it’s not (yet) all day everyday, but there are moments when I’d swear I was in the presence of wild [...]

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Tags: Behavior · Parenting Twins · Toddlers

The Hard Truths

June 22nd, 2010 by · 19 Comments

Lately I’ve found myself given the opportunity to chat with and encourage women who are pregnant with multiples.  They always want to know what to expect.  It’s difficult to prepare someone for this crazy journey, but I don’t know that I always share the real hard truths.  Let’s face it, ladies, our job as a [...]

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Tags: Parenting Twins

A slow farewell

June 21st, 2010 by · 12 Comments

Oh, my friends, it is truly a sad day in my house.  I have come to acknowledge a painful fact. The nap is on its way out. *sob* OK, it’s not gone yet.  And, to be more specific, it’s my son who seems to be getting ready to drop it.  Over the last few weeks, [...]

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Tags: Napping · Preschoolers · Sleep · Toddlers

separating multiples in the classroom

June 15th, 2010 by · 17 Comments

We’re officially on summer break, here. Unfortunately, summer is fraught with challenges for me and my twins. Things like swimming lessons and bike rides and water and parades and fireworks… Sigh. Today the boys begin Safety Town, a pre-kindergarten program designed to teach safety basics like crossing the street, learning one’s address and phone number, [...]

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Tags: Development · Other people · Parenting Twins · Preschoolers · Relationships · School-Age

Older siblings and new babies

June 14th, 2010 by · 14 Comments

I have been asked to submit a story for a booklet produced by our local twins and triplets club. They suggested I contribute something about having a toddler while pregnant with twins and while caring for newborn twins.  Here are some of the strategies we used to get our son prepared for the new babies. [...]

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Tags: Breastfeeding · Infants · Pregnancy · Singletons · Toddlers

Help is on the Way

June 10th, 2010 by · 12 Comments

In the weeks leading up to the birth of my twins, I got increasingly nervous. How in the world was I ever going to manage caring for two newborn twins while also recovering from a c-section. My husband could only take a few days off from work (could have taken more unpaid, but that wasn’t [...]

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Tags: Parenting Twins