Moms of multiples tell it like it is

Entries from October 2010

Maybe We’re Twins

October 27th, 2010 by · 8 Comments

The fact that Tiny and Buba are twins is not something that we’ve spent a lot of time talking about with them. We certainly aren’t trying to keep this bit of information from them. Our neighbor is constantly calling them “the twins”, and whenever a stranger stops to ask “Are they twins?”, we always answer [...]

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Tags: Parenting Twins

Sleeping arrangements for twins – the toddler update

October 22nd, 2010 by · 18 Comments

A few weeks ago, with no preparation, I decided to move our girls from their cribs to beds. My sudden decision occurred because when I got them up from their naps, S had her leg caught between the crib bars for the third time in the last few weeks.  I decided that it would be [...]

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Tags: Safety · Sleep · Toddlers

The Narc

October 21st, 2010 by · 7 Comments

I’ve got one in my pair, do you? My daughter, Rebecca, has always been more of the goody-two-shoes than her brother.  Which is not to say that she isn’t clever and sneaky and a challenge in her own way, of course. But for the most part, she’s a rule-follower.  In fact, I would go so [...]

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Tags: Behavior · Preschoolers

a double-edged sword

October 19th, 2010 by · 15 Comments

For the first time in a long time, I have a lot of twin-related things to say. My boys are two months into their kindergarten year, and they are growing up before my eyes. But this is a post about my older singleton daughter. She was not yet 2 when we dragged her to our [...]

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Tags: Behavior · Mommy Issues · Relationships · Singletons

A first… rudeness to one twin?

October 18th, 2010 by · 10 Comments

Oh hello HDYDI readers! It’s me again LauraC. Remember how I stopped writing for HDYDI when my twin boys turned 3 because we didn’t have much twinny stuff? Well do I have a story for you! Saturday I took my boys (almost 4.5) to a local park. As we were walking along a greenway, a [...]

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Tags: Ask The Moms

Very Nearly a Soccer Mom

October 12th, 2010 by · 6 Comments

I’ve already got the house in the suburbs, the dog, the swingset in the yard, and the minivan.  I figured it was time for some soccer in our lives. Actually, it was my son. For a kid that doesn’t always seem to have a lot of body awareness, he has a real love for trying [...]

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Tags: Activities · Preschoolers

Multiples, Speech Delays and Mommy Guilt

October 8th, 2010 by · 12 Comments

I’ve heard that multiples are more likely to have speech delays from various sources: books, web resources, paediatricians, and other parents of multiples. There doesn’t seem to be a definite explanation for these delays, but there seem to be two main theories: (1) multiples develop their own ways of communicating with each other so they [...]

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Tags: Development · Mommy Issues · Toddlers

Hers, His, Theirs

October 7th, 2010 by · 9 Comments

So, I’ve been thinking about Christmas presents. I know. But before you think I’m one of those organized, plan-ahead people, let me be clear that the only reason my mind started taking that jog was because a friend of mine, fully aware of my son’s obsession with Thomas The Train and his knockoff brand trains [...]

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Tags: Development · Toddlers

why having twins is different from having two kids

October 5th, 2010 by · 10 Comments

My boys are in all-day kindergarten. When my daughter started all-day kindergarten two years ago, I was shocked to discover that there is a substantial amount of homework for all-day kindergarteners. Now I’m even more overwhelmed, because: I have a 2nd grader and TWO kindergarteners My husband works 2nd shift and isn’t around to help [...]

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Tags: Other people · Parenting Twins · School-Age