Moms of multiples tell it like it is

Entries from September 2011

Three is a Magic Number

September 29th, 2011 by · 4 Comments

Remember the song, “Three is a magic number,” from School House Rock? Yes, I was a child of the 80’s. Well three is a magic number in our household…sometimes. This summer my 4 year old fraternal twin boys have achieved what my 7 year old daughter has been waiting for her entire life: the ability [...]

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Hands-on Learning

September 28th, 2011 by · 2 Comments

I am an unashamed nerd. (My husband, looking over my shoulder as I write, claims that he is not a nerd, and is better described as “awesome.” His high school friends would probably go with nerd-jock, though. Oh, and band geek.) We’re the kind of people who see science and math everywhere in our daily lives. Our kids told us, [...]

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Tags: Preschoolers · School-Age

Mommy Guilt x2

September 26th, 2011 by · 24 Comments

When people ask, “How do you do it?” or anything similar while we are out and about chasing our twin toddlers, my husband and I have our general response: These are our only kids and we don’t know any different. Which is true, we have always had two kids. Two babies. Then two toddlers. We [...]

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Tags: Family · Infants · Mommy Issues · Parenting Twins

Saving Money with Multiples Theme Week Round Up

September 25th, 2011 by · No Comments

Thanks to all the bloggers for sharing their posts on our theme of saving money with multiples. Here’s a summary of what’s been posted over the theme weeks: Every Little Bit Helps by Leslie H. Avoid Throwing Money Away in the Diaper Pail by Jen Wood The New-to-Us Shopping Method by Rean Bean Cloth Diapers [...]

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Tags: Theme Week

The Sounds of Imagination

September 24th, 2011 by · 2 Comments

Growing up my childhood hero was Anne of Green Gables. Her emphasis of imagination influenced my own twin sister and me to conjure up whole afternoons, whole summers, of endless games to play. It’s been important to me that my boys (who are granted only nearing 2) are encouraged to do the same. Sometimes this [...]

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Multiple Perspectives: Interview with a MoM-to-Be

September 23rd, 2011 by · 9 Comments

I’m excited, of course, when friends tell me that they are expecting, but I’m quadruply so when they tell me they are expecting multiples. My co-worker and friend Rachel has met my twin daughters only three or four times, but she became an instant favourite with them because of her warmth and humour. You can imagine my [...]

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Tags: Fraternal · Interview · Pregnancy

Third Wheel?

September 21st, 2011 by · 16 Comments

Our twins were our first kids, unplanned for and unexpected. On days when I cannot meet my work deadlines and haven’t showered in three days and the girls are refusing to eat and my house smells suspiciously like something has died in the heating ducts, the idea of getting pregnant again seems quite laughable. But [...]

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Tags: Family · Parenting Twins · Pregnancy · Singletons

Introducing Your Twins

September 20th, 2011 by · 8 Comments

I’m always puzzled as to how to introduce my twins. I already consciously say “These are my twins…” because I try to head off that ever annoying question “are they twins?” but I’m always torn with which order to introduce them. Growing up my parents always introduced us in age order, oldest to youngest, and [...]

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Tags: Family · Routines

can i make my twins wear Thing 1 and Thing 2 shirts?

September 20th, 2011 by · 9 Comments

Nearly everyone has an opinion about dressing twins alike. (Mine? It’s adorable when they’re little, but a luxury people who dress mostly in hand-me-downs can rarely afford!) My boys have a handful of matched shirts — gifts from their grandma, or the fruit of a Target clearance rack. Every so often they like to dress alike, [...]

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Tags: Ask the Readers · Identical · Mommy Issues · Other people · Parenting Twins · Relationships · School-Age · Twin Types

Yet An Other ‘Secret’ Language

September 19th, 2011 by · 4 Comments

When I was expecting our first child I didn’t really read that many books about expecting and giving birth but one thing I was interested in was language development in children, especially when they were raised in a multilingual home. You see, I was born and raised in Finland, the winner of Newsweek’s 2010 best country [...]

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Tags: Development