Moms of multiples tell it like it is

Please Vote! Friday, June 5th

June 5th, 2009 by · 1 Comment

Hello Everyone! Enormous thanks go to our wonderful MoM’s who have agreed to “try out” for HDYDI! We are beyond thrilled that so many of you are reading along with us, and we hope you enjoy our contest week. Please vote for the author you would like to hear more from, as the authors with [...]

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Please Vote! Monday, June 1st

June 1st, 2009 by · 2 Comments

Hello Everyone!  Enormous thanks go to our wonderful MoM’s who have agreed to “try out” for HDYDI! We are beyond thrilled that so many of you are reading along with us, and we hope you enjoy our contest week.  Please vote for the author you would like to hear more from, as the authors with the [...]

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Divorce, marital problems, and multiples

May 26th, 2009 by · 34 Comments

After telling my husband I would not watch the season premiere of Jon and Kate Plus 8 last night, I ended up tivoing it anyway and watching it. I was sad after the show and stayed up way too late thinking about it. What really got me was when Kate said divorce rates are so [...]

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Tags: Family · Famous Twins · Mommy Issues · Relationships

Singing happy birthday to multiples

May 19th, 2009 by · 16 Comments

My boys turned three on Saturday and we sang Happy Birthday to them individually. They have to share SO MUCH that I thought it would be nice to give them individual attention on their birthday. Alex went first since he is the oldest, so technically his birthday is first! Then a couple of comments on [...]

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Tags: Celebrations

Birthday emotions

May 12th, 2009 by · 6 Comments

The week before my twin boys turned 1, I was an emotional mess. I couldn’t stop thinking about their birth. I couldn’t stop remembering the emotions of our week in the NICU, so worried about my little boys.  I mourned the normal pregnancy, normal childbirth, and normal newborn experience I would never have. I was [...]

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Tags: Celebrations · Mommy Issues

Twins versus singleton, roar roar roar

May 5th, 2009 by · 9 Comments

This weekend, my husband Jon and I  watched our friend’s son Ben along with our twin boys Nate and Alex.  I learned some valuable lessons, most notably that Jon and I are definitely two-kid parents. I also had a super huge light bulb go off in my head. Twins versus singleton: it is very different, from both [...]

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Tags: Childcare · Development · Family · Relationships · Singletons

Responding to "we're having twins!"

April 28th, 2009 by · 41 Comments

This morning, one of my husband’s college friends sent news that they’re expecting twins. I have heard of a lot of multiples since becoming a twin mom, but all of those announcements have been through my local multiples group. This is my first experience with a real-life friend becoming pregnant with multiples. I had no [...]

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Tags: Ask The Moms · Pregnancy · Relationships

So this is what they mean!

April 21st, 2009 by · 14 Comments

When the boys were newborns, one of the things I hated to hear from twin moms with older twins was how much things get easier when they start playing together. I would ask when that was and they would say, “Oh, close to 3.” Peoples, if you come upon a mom of newborn twins, NEVER [...]

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Tags: Behavior · Development · Preschoolers

The germiest child care option, yet it works for us

April 17th, 2009 by · 15 Comments

I always knew I would never be a stay-at-home mom. I’ve always loved math and science, and along with that has come the understanding that I’m a tad different. Looking through my childhood pictures, you will see me standing there as the lone girl on the math team, the junior engineering team, and the science team, [...]

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Tags: Childcare

Welcome to Child Care Week!

April 13th, 2009 by · No Comments

With the multitude of child care options available to parents, the authors of HDYDI have decided to share the nitty gritty details of their particular child care option. Each day this week, we’ll be featuring different authors who will provide details on their child care option. We’ll discuss pros and cons, rants and raves, and what [...]

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Tags: Childcare