Moms of multiples tell it like it is

NICU rules

December 13th, 2011 by · 10 Comments

My friend’s wife, Maria, was on bed-rest for the last few months of her twin pregnancy. They live in Cyprus. I’ve been checking in with them on Skype, every other Thursday. It gets down to numbers – be it weeks, days, weight, length, or contractions. —— “30 weeks. Woooo hooooo!” “So far so good! Maria [...]

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Tags: Birth Stories

Medium and Happy

October 26th, 2011 by · 1 Comment

(Leila and Rahul are turning 2 in a few days. They are doing very well, happy and healthy, other than a cold they have been fighting for the last week.  I would like to share something I wrote when they turned one-and-a-half.) ——————————- Rahul and Leila have come a long way since their birth at [...]

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Tags: Celebrations · Development · Feeding · Overnight · Parenting Twins · Prematurity · Sleep

Mum Connections

October 22nd, 2011 by · 3 Comments

A month ago, we had dinner at the Calgary Airport. What better restaurant to have our last meal in oil and beef-heaven than at a steakhouse? The waitress greets us with a cheery smile, asks us how many we are. “Four adults, two children,” I answer, pointing out L and R. My parents are sending [...]

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Tags: Family · Feeding · Mommy Issues · Other people · Theme Week · Travel

“Afu ge ge”, “Leila mei mei”

October 5th, 2011 by · 8 Comments

“Which twin is older?” The question is absurd. In China, I get it all the time. And it works me up. “They are twins. They are the same age.” I reply, irritated. “Yes, but they didn’t both come out at the same time, did they? One had to have been born first.” They insist, “Is [...]

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Tags: Behavior · Parenting Twins · Relationships · Toddlers

Practice at home with your little yogis

September 18th, 2011 by · 4 Comments

The yoga industry has become a multi-billion dollar industry, attracting hordes of us to join the trend. It’s wonderful that more people are benefiting from yoga, but it’s not so straightforward to know what you really need. Some studios are looking and acting like high-end spas. Yoga clothing and equipment is becoming specialized, even hyped. [...]

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Tags: Activities · Theme Week · Toddlers

Dragon Phoenix Twins

August 27th, 2011 by · 7 Comments

“Are they Dragon Phoenix Twins?”  I am asked every day, everywhere, and by everyone around me in Chengdu. “Yes, they are,” I reply. “Waaaaa” they exclaim with glee, and huge smiles, “You are very lucky. How happy you must be.” Twins generate as much or dare I say more excitement here in China as anywhere [...]

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Tags: Other people

Full Circle – with my Heart and Hands Full

August 13th, 2011 by · 5 Comments

I’ve come full circle, back in Koh Samui, at Samahita Yoga Thailand (SYT) two and a half years after my last serious training here. This time I’m here with my husband M, and my 21 month old boy/girl twins Rahul and Leila. Right after my advanced teacher training course at SYT in 2009, I spent [...]

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Tags: Family · Mommy Issues