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The Last Christmas

December 20th, 2011 by · 4 Comments

 I feel your heart beating inside my own skin And I think of Mary In Bethlehem That night in a stable Our saviour was born Yes, we have so much To be thankful for On the last Christmas,  The last Christmas,  The last Christmas Without you -Six Pence None the Richer A year ago I [...]

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Tags: Celebrations · Family · Mommy Issues

Creating Holiday Traditions

December 9th, 2011 by · 2 Comments

This is my boys’ 3rd Christmas, but the first that they really have any idea what is going on around here with the tree in the living room and the lights everywhere. They were born at the beginning of November, and as anyone with twins or more babies knows, the first few months are a [...]

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Tags: Family

Holiday Greetings

December 7th, 2011 by · 2 Comments

I love the holidays.  Holiday music, baking opportunities, community events, Christmas lights–all of it makes me smile. I don’t enjoy shopping during the holidays at all, though. The crowds give me headaches, so I’m usually done procuring gifts well before Thanksgiving. One of my favourite activities at the end of the year is sending out [...]

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Tags: Activities · Celebrations · Family · Relationships · Theme Week

Fighting the Urge to Compare

November 15th, 2011 by · 6 Comments

I am not one of the twin moms who shuns the idea that my kids are a unit. They were born together and I regularly refer to them as “the boys“ on my blog and quite often in real life. I figure if I had two boys of different ages I would likely shorthand it [...]

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Tags: Family · Fraternal · Mommy Issues · Toddlers

Mum Connections

October 22nd, 2011 by · 3 Comments

A month ago, we had dinner at the Calgary Airport. What better restaurant to have our last meal in oil and beef-heaven than at a steakhouse? The waitress greets us with a cheery smile, asks us how many we are. “Four adults, two children,” I answer, pointing out L and R. My parents are sending [...]

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Tags: Family · Feeding · Mommy Issues · Other people · Theme Week · Travel

Mommy Guilt x2

September 26th, 2011 by · 24 Comments

When people ask, “How do you do it?” or anything similar while we are out and about chasing our twin toddlers, my husband and I have our general response: These are our only kids and we don’t know any different. Which is true, we have always had two kids. Two babies. Then two toddlers. We [...]

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Tags: Family · Infants · Mommy Issues · Parenting Twins

Third Wheel?

September 21st, 2011 by · 16 Comments

Our twins were our first kids, unplanned for and unexpected. On days when I cannot meet my work deadlines and haven’t showered in three days and the girls are refusing to eat and my house smells suspiciously like something has died in the heating ducts, the idea of getting pregnant again seems quite laughable. But [...]

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Tags: Family · Parenting Twins · Pregnancy · Singletons

Introducing Your Twins

September 20th, 2011 by · 7 Comments

I’m always puzzled as to how to introduce my twins. I already consciously say “These are my twins…” because I try to head off that ever annoying question “are they twins?” but I’m always torn with which order to introduce them. Growing up my parents always introduced us in age order, oldest to youngest, and [...]

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Tags: Family · Routines

A Mother’s Belief

August 30th, 2011 by · 4 Comments

A Mother’s Belief Hi! I’m a wife to a talented carpenter, I work part-time as an RN, I’m a mother of three and am originally from Finland. I’ve been in the US since 2000 (at age 8 I informed my parents that when I grow up I’d move to America and marry a black man). [...]

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Tags: Family · Mommy Issues · Routines

Full Circle – with my Heart and Hands Full

August 13th, 2011 by · 5 Comments

I’ve come full circle, back in Koh Samui, at Samahita Yoga Thailand (SYT) two and a half years after my last serious training here. This time I’m here with my husband M, and my 21 month old boy/girl twins Rahul and Leila. Right after my advanced teacher training course at SYT in 2009, I spent [...]

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Tags: Family · Mommy Issues