Moms of multiples tell it like it is

where my twins’ IQ test results throw me into a tizzy

May 1st, 2012 by · 4 Comments

Our identical (we think?) twin boys are in 1st grade now. While their speech issues hinder their spelling, they’re still performing above grade level in language arts. But math is where they really excel. This fall, G’s standardized test scores for math were the highest in the class, well above the 99th percentile threshold. Right [...]

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Tags: Ask the Readers · Difference · Education · Identical · Relationships · School-Age · Speech Therapy

Home Economics

March 18th, 2012 by · 2 Comments

Our daughters’ elementary school has organized a raffle to raise money for travel to Austin. I’ve never felt strongly about raffles one way or the other, but when my daughter J told me, “My teacher said I MUST bring a dollar tomorrow to get a new bicycle,” my reaction was strong and immediate. “No way. Besides, [...]

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Tags: Co-parenting · Education · Other people · School-Age

Nurturing the Love of Reading

March 14th, 2012 by · 3 Comments

The Rainbow Magic series of books has been an obsession at our house for over a year now. The seemingly infinite sets of themed books, written by 4 British women under the pseudonym Daisy Meadows, have everything our daughters love: humour, fairies, royalty, clear cut good and bad (but not too bad), silliness, talking animals, [...]

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Tags: Development · Education · School-Age

MLK Day Is More Than a Day Off

January 16th, 2012 by · 1 Comment

Growing up in the UK and Bangladesh, I was raised on Mahatma Gandhi’s life story and words as the embodiment of a worldwide move towards civil rights and mutual respect between people and between peoples. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. embodied those same values, and today’s US-wide commemoration of his achievements is a reminder to [...]

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Tags: Difference · Diversity · Holidays · Other people · Relationships · School-Age

Teach a Child to Grocery Shop…

January 13th, 2012 by · 7 Comments

My husband has a very physical job, and our daughters, M and J, are incredibly active kids. It takes a little more effort on my part to fit exercise into my day, since I have a desk job, but I do my best. I will admit that I haven’t been good about working out since [...]

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Tags: Balance · Feeding · Foodie Fridays · Older children · Other people · School-Age

Classroom Placement: Part I – Separate Classrooms

October 27th, 2011 by · 6 Comments

Who knows best whether your multiples should be placed in the same classroom or separated at school? You, right? For our family, separation in kindergarten was the right answer, but it’s different for everyone. Many educators and school administrators believe that same-age siblings should never be placed in a classroom together. I would argue that there is no one-size-fits-all solution [...]

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Tags: Parenting Twins · School-Age

Hands-on Learning

September 28th, 2011 by · 2 Comments

I am an unashamed nerd. (My husband, looking over my shoulder as I write, claims that he is not a nerd, and is better described as “awesome.” His high school friends would probably go with nerd-jock, though. Oh, and band geek.) We’re the kind of people who see science and math everywhere in our daily lives. Our kids told us, [...]

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Tags: Preschoolers · School-Age